What are some tips for getting along with my construction employer?

The trick is to treat your construction employer like a client. Pretend like you're in business for yourself and that your construction employer is your most important (and quite possibly your most difficult) client.

Ask how you can provide quality service, and what you can do to differentiate yourself from the competition. And then do it. When he says or does something that leaves you feeling disgruntled, treat him as you would any other client: respectfully. Remind yourself that your livelihood depends on pleasing your client.

Even if you don't like your construction employer, it's imperative that you find a way to respect them. So if you've already fallen into an adversarial relationship, swallow your pride and repair the damage. Apologize for your bad attitude and assure your construction employer that you're committed to improving your performance.

Your future success both within the construction employer and outside of it hinges on your construction employer's referrals.